Well, the evil border is off and the room is painted. The colour we ended up going with is Benjamin Moore Denim Wash. It is a feel good colour that is deep without making the room feel dark. It looks nice with the gray headboard and new gray, black and white bedding. Now I need to track down a black lamp shade, a small area rug, book case, light fixture and some art. At least we are 80% there. In about a week I hope to post the completed room. Wish me luck!